hiatus-lah sangat

aku tertarik dengan bahan yang sahabat aku kasi dari Volgograd.

the paradoxical commandments. ubahsuai dari Mother Teresa punya versi.

baca ya, dan hayati. tapi jangan praktikkan lagi.

[...]

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.

People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, there may be jealousy;
Be happy anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

[...]

aku kurang setuju dengan commandments sebegini. memang-lah motifnya sesuci debu. kearah kebaikan. dah kata hasil karya Mother Theresa.

tapi dalam Islam ada mengatakan, habluminallah dan habluminanas.

hubungan antara Allah, dan hubungan antara manusia.

2 benda tu kita tak boleh pisahkan. macam yin dan yang. gula dengan semut. israel dan palestin.

ada sesetengah commandment tu seolah-seolah mahu mengatakan "lantak kau orang manusia, asal hubungan aku dengan Tuhan bagus"

tafsiran aku, macam tu-lah. namun, ada juga-lah kebenaran sikit. contohnya kalau ya pun kau bersetuju untuk tidak berapa menjaga hubungan dengan member, mestilah cuma to a certain extend. takkanlah sampai kau mengguris hati perasaan member hingga ke ulu hati sekaligus memutuskan tali persahabatan.

tapi, kalau nak hidup macam tu, maksudnya kau akan hidup sorang-sorang. betul tak? sapa nak kawan dengan kau macam tu.

tak payah pusing kiri kanan, aku sendiri akan sisih, dan pulaukan kau.

limit, mesti ada. jangan sampai hilang kawan, itu yang penting. terutama kalau hidup luar negara. family takda, awek pun takda. nak bergantung kepada sapa?

Allah s.w.t ngan member jerlah.

tak faham apa aku cuba selatankan? bagus. dah nama paradoks.